Sunday, August 17, 2008

All Play and No work?

Well, I have been in Providence for about a week now. Although the city is small, there is still a lot for me to learn about it, and I am having fun exploring the new terrain. Tomorrow I begin my graduate assistantship with Providence College; a position within the Office of Academic Affairs, something which I am very excited about. While part of me is sad that this is one of the first signs that summer is coming to a close, there is a part of me that is eager to get back out there. While many might take advantage of the idleness which comes with the summer, I have missed the structure of a day to day schedule. You see, this summer has been very different for me than summers past, as I have not worked nearly as much as I have in recent years. Since, I was 16 years-old, I have held some type of part time position. While I worked the less hours during the school year to focus on academics, I have typically worked quite a bit during the summer, usually about 30 hrs. or more in order to save money. As I said this summer was quite different. When I began student teaching in January, I left my position as a bank teller in order to concentrate on my final semester, a decision that in retrospect, I am quite thankful for considering the amount of work that was required (Anyone who has ever student taught can attest = ) ). Once the semester was finished in May, I took a position as a tutor for a local center for students with academic difficulties. I was eager to get back to work, and since I knew in advance that my summer was going to be very packed, I appreciated the flexibility that this new job seemed to offer. What appeared to be an excellent opportunity, quickly turned into a regular annoyance, as I was not given the amount of hours that I had been promised and when I was scheduled to work, I was often sent home without being paid. The climax of my already growing frustration came when I returned from a vacation to find out that I was not on the schedule, after telling two supervisors personally, and writing on the employee calendar when I would be returning. Although I was annoyed, I took my losses and turned it into something positive. Even though I did not work as much this summer, I was able to support myself through savings. More importantly, I have used my excess freedom to spend time with friends and family before moving. Notable outings included, a trip to Montauk, New York City, high tea, and many beach days and lunch outings. I was able to attend the wedding of a good friend, as well as a wonderful trip to Europe, where I had the good fortune of experiencing several other parts of the world. Most importantly, I used the extra time for myself to experience the simple pleasures in life, such as an early morning run, an afternoon lost in the words of a favorite author, or an evening walk for a small vanilla ice from Ralph's with a good friend. To sum it up, while the workaholic nerd in me is eager to get back in there, I also understand that this summer taught me to appreciate what I have, focusing less on a schedule, and more on simple pleasures. I hope you all can do the same.

3 comments:

Jamie Vita said...

This was a great post Kate! You have always worked so hard that I am glad that this summer was more relaxing for you. I enjoyed so many of our adventures together this summer. I know you are going to do great at your new job and with your school work. I think that sometimes we get so wrapped up in the hecticness of our lives that we lose the precious little things along the way. It would do us all good to remember to enjoy all the little moments that life has to offer.

Kathleen said...

best of luck as you start your assistantship. It will be such a cool new experience for you and I know you will have an amazing time.

Paige said...

Good Luck with your new position, Kate.

Have fun with the exploration of your new town. You have so much to learn and it is going to be great!